Make your Valentines Go With a Swing

Whether you are planning a hot and horny session of unadulterated sexual exploration or preparing a sensual love nest for you both to re-discover your most pleasurable personal parts we have devised a list of favoured tips to incorporate into your Valentines celebration - Enjoy!

Plan your Seduction- Valentines calls for a little extra effort and it only takes a small amount of planning for your evening to go well. Obviously any plans for an evening meal or show takes some arranging in advance but also consider your lingerie and accessories if you plan to enjoy an evening of hot sex. Sex Toys, corsets, killer heels, seamed stockings, lubricants, scented candles, a sex swing or silky sheets can be stored away ready for your evenings entertainment.

Eat small and delicate food – Choose tempting morsels of delicious and decadent food that not only tastes divine but look delightful in the eating. The lustre of fresh fruits and texture of fresh figs cut on the plate, the juices from a strawberry or melon when you take a bite or sucking fresh butter from an asparagus spear becomes part of foreplay itself. The vibrancy of seafood on a plate to feed each other and the rich creamy texture of chocolate or cream oozing from a pastry when you both take a bite are sensual food in the making. Ice cream is a favourite to lick from the spoon or trickle onto each other for a tingling delight followed by a warm tongue.
The key to seductive eating is small and often. You may have whipped up a 4 course a la carte extravaganza but a full stomach will lead to a snooze rather than sex and you can always make up for it with post coital supper in your own golden glow!

Massage- Choose scented oil such as Kama Sutra’s Serenity or a dual massage oil/lubricant such as Durex Play and explore your lovers contours with your fingertips and palms. In essence the feeling of touch is enough to relax your partner and induce a feeling of arousal, you don’t need to be a trained masseuse. Follow your instincts and use pressure where it feels appropriate, just tracing lines with your fingertips at the more delicate areas. If you use a combined oil/lubricant take your massage to the clitoris or cock and extend the massage to an expert round of genital massage when you are ready to turn up the heat.

Use all erogenous zones- Nipples, nape of neck, inner thighs, ankles, toes, remember to explore all sensitive areas on your partner during foreplay. We all too quickly dive into the obvious areas to begin our work when tracing your finger or vibrator along the inner thigh can get the juices flowing just as well if not more

Oral Sex- The ultimate indulgence for many and lets face it ladies there’s nothing quite as delicious as the feeling of a soft warm tongue on the labia (No this can not be simulated!). Take your time over oral sex as though it is a delicacy to be savoured and try not to rush the process. Yes I know oral sex is a big effort but try alternating a clitoral vibrator on the lips with your tongue, use a tongue vibrator like the tongue joy or Screaming O Lingo for extra stimulus or suck your partner hard and then massage him slowly with your hand. All forms of stimulation will feel great and prolonging the pleasure makes the finale feel so much better.

Try Something New – A special occasion such as Valentine can be a great time to explore unchartered territory, in the anticipation as well as the actual event. If you have promised each other a fantasy scenario, new sexual act or even a change to your usual sexual routine then mark the occasion and hopefully you will continue to enjoy it long after Valentine has gone.