Sex Toys and The G Spot
Sex Toys and The G Spot
The g spot has become something of a popular zone for women to explore and sex toys of all genres have been adapted to reach this orgasmic spot. If you purchase a dildo you can benefit from its penetrative pleasures immediately and finding the clitoris to benefit from a vibrators buzz is quickly mastered but g spot sex toys will need some practice and patience to benefit from their g finding design.
Locating your g spot with a finger is the best place to start as you will feel the area on your fingertip and be able to direct your g spot toy more effectively when the time comes. Allow yourself time to play and be patient, it might take a couple of goes and different positions before the benefits are felt. Start by applying some sex lubricant to your finger and vulva, adopt the position that suits you best and insert your finger into the vagina a couple of inches from the vaginal entrance. Once in place bend your finger as if beckoning somebody over, applying pressure towards the pubic bone or stomach area. Don’t expect the g spot to feel like a spot it will feel like a firmer mass of tissue about the size of a 10 pence piece on the vaginal wall. Apply pressure and have a feel around until you can feel this tissue under your finger. As the vaginal canal doesn’t have the host of stimulating nerve endings that the clitoris does when you experience a new tingling sensation it is likely to be the g spot.
Finding the g spot isn’t a case of taking a grid reference and locating it on your body map, we are all different and it will take some exploration to discover yours. Try building up arousal before using your g spot toy, massaging with a clitoral vibrator will increase your natural lubrication, relax you and increase sensitivity making it easier to reach your g spot. Some women find kneeling on all fours makes it easier to locate the g spot whilst others need a dildos full feeling to experience the benefit from g spot massage. Choose a sex toy without complicated functions to begin, either a g spot vibrator with a simple setting or dildo/probe with handle for ease of use. Insert the sex toy with the curved tip pointing upwards and apply pressure to your vaginal wall getting familiar with the place that delivers the best sensation. When you have located the g spot don’t be afraid to apply pressure, the zone has to be reached through the vaginal wall and increased pressure will yield results. Use quick, firm, rubbing strokes rather than the thrusts of a dildo or vibrator and don’t worry if you feel the need to wee as the bladder also feels the pressure you are applying.
Many women stimulate the g spot and clitoris in tandem as it yields the best results, a blended climax, which can induce new orgasmic heights. Either use your other hand to massage with a clitoral vibrator or use a dual purpose sex toy such as the rock chick vibrator which allows you to gently rock with the toy in place, massaging the g spot and clitoris with its unique design (see our review of the rock chick). A g-spot rabbit vibrator is also ideal as the clitoral stimulation is integral to the toy and the rotating shaft helps you apply pressure where you need it. You can also enhance g spot stimulation from the outside by applying pressure to your lower stomach with the palm of your hand whilst penetrating with a dildo at the same time. The two forces come together to sandwich your g spot resulting in a pleasurable sensation, which can spread to a warming orgasm. As with all forms of masturbation and sex toy play breathe deeply and flex the pelvic muscles in rhythm with your strokes. If you are massaging the clitoris at the same time you will probably experience an orgasm from two areas both the clitoris and deeper inside the g spot zone. Remember to allow time to perfect your routine, be patient and experiment with different techniques, enjoy!
