Tips for using your Dildo
Tips for using your Dildo
The Butterfly
The best position to start using a dildo is the butterfly. Either lie on your back or support your upper body slightly so that you can see your vagina, put your feet together and let your legs flop to the side, like the two wings of a butterfly. From this position you can easily control the dildo and penetrate your vagina by holding the shaft and it’s a nice comfortable, relaxing position to begin experimenting with your sex toy. Always begin by applying a sex lubricant to the entire length of the dildo and Slowly penetrate the opening of your vagina with the dildo’s head, gently feeding the dildo in and out with slow strokes. Once it feels comfortable graduate to faster, deeper thrusts particularly moving toward the build up to climax. The great thing about the butterfly position is that the clitoris can also easily be stimulated. If you need a clitoral vibrator or manual stimulation of the clitoris to orgasm this can be achieved alongside the penetration of the dildo. You will find that the clitoral massage will complement the full feeling from the dildo and that your orgasm has an extra intensity derived from both zones.
Ride From Behind
Suction cup dildos are perfect for you if you enjoy movement in your hips and pelvis that helps contribute to climax. Stick the cup of the dildo to your bedpost, smooth door, bathroom wall and lubricate the dildo with a water-based lube. Kneel on all floors (use a couple of cushions to save those knees) and back onto the dildo gently penetrating with slow strokes. This position enables excellent control as your movements dictate the length and depth of penetration. Slowly glide onto the dildo concentrating on your outer vaginal walls with the most sensitivity or adopt deep pelvic thrusts for full penetration. Many women comment that clitoral massage on all fours is more sensitive than lying on your back so introduce this into your routine. As the suction cup dildo allows complete hands free masturbation, a vibrator can be used on your clitoris simultaneously or lubricate the clitoris and use your favourite manual technique.
The Twister
If you think about the motion of a penis when you have sex it doesn’t just go in and out (well you hope it doesn’t!). The grinding of hips and motions of your bodies will twist and turn a phallus, providing varied sensation and pressure against your vaginal walls. You can emulate this with your dildo by holding the base at your opening and slowly twisting your wrist as you penetrate. Try the twist to the left and right at different pressures until you discover the pace that brings you most pleasure. Choose longer dildos for this technique or a realistic dildo where you can grip the testicles for good control.
Double Dildo Delight
Apply a generous amount of sex lubricant to a double dildo and your inner and outer lips. Begin with the head of one end of your dildo at the vaginal opening and slide in keeping the length bent against the top end of your opening, running the length of your vulva to the tip of your clitoris. When in motion use both hands to slide the dildo into your vagina whilst allowing the length to rub against your lips. Choosing a dildo with texture will maximise the sensation.
The Big Head
Choose a dildo with a big head for a technique to maximise the sensitivity of your vaginal walls. The large head of your dildo will feel fantastic being gently pumped out of your vagina and in about a third (the most sensitive part). You will almost feel a 'popping' sensation on its exit. The bigger head will also make for a great clitoral massager, apply some lube and the entire inner vulva will benefit from its massage. Enjoy!
