Getting To Know You
Getting To Know You
Yes the female genitals are far more complicated than the males & its not on show so less presented for constant close up scrutiny. Despite the recent increase in female genitalia modification (makes me want to squeeze my knees), women tend to obsess less about the details of their sexual organs than men but are more dependant on multiple stimulation & ‘all body’ sensation. This is even more reason to understand about what’s in your knickers & be able to point your partner in the right direction.
The Clitoris
Us lucky ladies have the only area in the human body which exists solely for the purpose of pleasure. Move over Freud this female pleasure zone is very firmly the centre of sexual stimulation for women & is the only way for many to experience a climax. The clitoris is under the hood of skin at the top of the vulva but this is not the extent of the clitoris & only the visible part of your anatomy. The nerve endings spread back as far as 5cm & can even be stimulated from the outside pubic area.
The benefits of clitoral stimulation are abound & whether the clitoris is massaged, licked or experiences the vibrations of a clitoral stimulator it should be a focus during both masturbation & intercourse.
The Labia
Latin for lips the labia consist of the labia major the fleshy area where the pubic hair grows & labia minor the hairless folds of skin which run the length on the inside.
These two sets make up the vulva & a good tip during foreplay or masturbation is to take a vibrator, apply some lube & gently stroke the whole length of the labia minor.
Vagina
This is the part on the inside, the long muscular tube which hosts the penis during intercourse & a dildo or vibrators during sex toy play.
During arousal the tunnel swells & produces natural lubrication (this differs from woman to woman). The outer third of the vagina is the most sensitive which does say lots for girth & texture over length.
G Spot
The g spot isn’t as complicated as it seems. It’s about 5cm up the front inside wall of your vagina. A good place to start is with your own or partners finger. Insert to the approximate depth & crook your finger in a beckoning motion once stimulation you should feel the area swell. If you can locate your g spot try a g spot vibrator which will have a curved vibrating tip especially for the g spot area. There is still debate surrounding the existence of the g spot although some women claim to experience an intense orgasm & female ejaculate when this area is massaged, our opinion is it’s worth a go!
