Are you Airing the orchid?
Are you Airing the orchid?
Flickin' the bean, Lovin' your oven, Pushing the button, Rubbin' the nubbin, whatever name you wish to give it female masturbation is usually the first natural sexual activity experienced by women.
Lets face it biologically we were designed to experience sexual pleasure with or without a partner & in modern times we understand that
a) We won’t go blind
b) Its not a sin
c) Its not abnormal
Enjoying self-pleasure without guilt & inhibition helps towards a positive body image, greater sexual confidence & improved sexual experience. In contrast with the idea that women in relationships don’t masturbate anymore it seems that a strong sex life depends on you understanding what makes you climax & how to achieve it. Outside of Hollywood love scenes & fabricated porn sets reality dictates that you need to lead your partner in the right direction as they are not going to arrive with a detailed knowledge of your genitalia & which buttons to press.
Practise makes perfect & whether you prefer manual stimulation or sex toys, masturbation can be an alternative to or enhancement to a sexual relationship. Experiment with different stimulus, a vibrator & clitoral stimulator at the same time or rabbit vibrators for a blended orgasm. You won’t over stimulate or condition your sexual response only understand better what turns you on & hopefully be able to communicate your needs better.
Masturbation is free, pleasurable, safe & healthy, which in this day & age cannot be said of many of our desired recreations.
It would be marketing mans dream with benefits that include:
Boosting self esteem – Masturbation can help you overcome personal inhibitions & fulfil your sexual desires which improves self confidence
Its safe consistent sexual activity for times when you choose not to find a partner.
It improves communication – When you understand what you want you can demonstrate this to your partner for a more fulfilling sex life & closer bond.
Its Safe Sex – With sensible use of Sex Toys Masturbation is a healthy form of sexual pleasure
It overcomes physical restraints – The ability to enjoy sexual pleasure with a disability or illness.
Ultimately relax, take your time & enjoy!
