Using a dildo as a couple
Using a dildo as a couple
The humble dildo has been around almost since the days of Adam & Eve. Historically, even the Ancient Greeks & Romans made phallic shaped objects of lust made from aged leather or carved from wood which had olive oil applied to them to act as a lubricant.
Since this early representation the dildo has appeared in more movies than you could watch in a lifetime, it’s had more re-incarnations than Cher & yet remains a staple of sex toy collections among women & men, single or attached.
So “why” might you ask has this penis substitute stood the test of time in a way that perhaps only headwear has? The answer is simple, Variety! You see when you have sex with a man he only has one variety of penis to offer & even after steering your way through the entire Karma sutra eventually monogamy can give way to temptation. Step forward & stand proud & erect the DILDO! This is not some antiquated long lost sex gadget from a primitive age, it is a viable substitute to the male member & depending on how much you’re prepared to spend you could struggle to tell it was not a real penis. A realistic dildo is invariably moulded from some carefully selected, willing member of the public or better still from a proud & obliging porn star who wants to ensure as many women as possible enjoy the satisfaction his manhood has to offer, either way the choice is huge as are some of the members on offer.
Men shouldn’t see the use of a dildo as demeaning to their masculinity but as another way of bringing pleasure to their women. When using a dildo as a couple both parties should ensure the dildo is warmed to body temperature, lubricate the shaft with a quality sex lubricant, a water based product is preferable & gently insert the tip into the woman’s vagina using a gradual in out penetrating motion, this can be in any position but missionary and doggie style are the most simple to tackle. Once the dildo has penetrated by 50 – 75%, holding onto the base of the phallic toy the man should prop his body up against his arm and use the rocking rhythm of his body to penetrate his female partner building momentum as if he were using his own penis. This motion mimics the movements of intercourse making it feel more natural for both parties. Once you’ve tried one you will certainly want to try another & before you know it you’ll have half a dozen in your bed side table & may even want to try a strap on but that’s a whole new arena.
Enjoy!
