Create your Own Bondage Boudoir

Sales of bondage products have progressively moved towards the mainstream & more suburban couples are discovering the sexual benefits of restraining & punishment role-play. The question is how to start choosing & creating your very own sex dungeon. We don’t all have the space or money to create a den of iniquity all our own so we have some bum slapping tips for turning your bedroom into bondage heaven.

The very best sex dungeons always have a prisoner & warden so firstly decide who will be in charge. This can then extend to your choice of sexy outfit, which will lend some seriousness to your [link=]bondage[/link] play. Leather, PVC & vinyl all being good choices for master & mistress personas. If you don’t want to spend a fortune on saucy outfits then simply customise your own underwear, cutting away the fabric in places that expose your nipples or bum cheeks.

The professional’s bondage playground is usually a dark basement with custom furniture & no light or ventilation. You can actually call in the Dungeon Fitters a company who specialise in creating sex dungeons, although the black van on the drive & lather hooded furniture fitters may raise some eyebrows. The atmosphere can easily be re-created with low level lighting & material to black out light through your bedroom curtains. Amber or red light bulbs will help create a seedy atmosphere & a few candles always help the ambiance and if you use a massage candle the hot wax comes in handy for later. A futon is perfect as bondage furniture with its many slats, alternatively use the legs on your bed to attach ties & cuffs or a bed restraint system, which fixes easily to the underside of your bed as a tie me up tool.

Every sex dungeon needs its fair share of bondage tools with restraints being top of the list. Soft bondage options offer a comfort fit on wrist & ankle cuffs with metal restraints for tougher bondage play. If you want to raid the drawers for alternatives than stockings, tights, ties & even dressing gown ties will all do the trick.
Dildos & vibrators are great sex toys for use during sexual power play between couples. Try restraining your partner & teasing with a vibrator or using a dildo for masturbation while your partner watches. Strap on’s for her are becoming popular sex toy choices & many couples are now experimenting with using a strap on in a heterosexual relationship. Restraining your man and donning a dildo can be a real turn on for him but remember to take things gently & choose a strap on with smaller dimensions such as the beginners strap on for him.

Paddles & whips are perfect for the dominatrix & increase the sensitivity of your skin as foreplay. A leather love paddle will provide enough impact without being too painful but the soles of shoes & flat bats will also offer a good rear end slap!
As the nipple area holds so much sensitivity nipple clamps can also be incorporated into your dungeon play, although a clothes peg will give a similar effect a pair of vibrating nipple clamps give a fantastic sensation.

Now your sex dungeon is complete remember the following words of warning. Never leave somebody tied & unattended & never tie a person around the neck. Always start spanking lightly & build up intensity & never do anything that will break the skin. If pins & needles begin halt proceedings for some manic hopping around & agree on a safe word to stop your chosen activity. Always make sure everybody involved is willing, stay safe & enjoy!