Introduction to sextoys for the uninitiated
Introduction to sextoys for the uninitiated
This article was inspired by a conversation between a customer & a member of our staff on the subject of introducing people to sex toys. In this case the woman & her friend were buying vibrators for their teenage daughters as a way of introducing them to sexual self discovery. Scary? Not as scary as the thought of your teenage daughter discovering her sexuality in the back of some oik’s Fiat Punto.
With this in mind are you perhaps too old to embrace the salacious pleasures of using implements to enhance your sex life? Good heavens NO! Newcomers to the wicked world of dildos & vibrators cover every stage of life & all soon discover there are pleasures to be gained through the medium of sex aids, age is not an issue here only experience & the desire to broaden your horizons.
The urban landscape is littered with Ann Summers parties, swinging neighbourhoods, private sex shops, gentleman only clubs, & hormone fuelled adolescents sneaking around the bike sheds, bus shelters & cemeteries. (Ah yes! No ground is too sacred to initiate the life long desire to practice procreation). So where do sextoys fit in to this melting pot of erotic activity?
The answer is EVERYWHERE. You need not look far to unveil the use of sex aids among peers & friends, a washing machine on spin cycle, an electric toothbrush, a phallic shaped vegetable, the vacuum cleaner…. The list goes on & on so as a rookie are you missing out?
When we think of sex toys we instantly tend to think of a vibrating torpedo shaped tool or an oversized rubbery dildo from a 70’s porn scene but these are just stereotypes, in reality sex implements per say can be very subtle in appearance & while the traditional dildo or vibrator is still a number 1 choice among the experts the uninitiated can opt for something more discreet & far less obvious as The Boudoir Discreet vibrators illustrates. Fledgling users should opt for a simple vibe without fussy controls; on – off or a variable speed dial at the most. About 4 – 6 inches is a good start with a pointed tip to allow for easy insertion or pin point clitoral stimulation. If you’re exploring the G spot use one with a curved tip (like a beckoning finger), some of the toys in our G spot vibrator section would never be identified by the average amateur as being a sex toy. Have a read of our G spot guide too.
Clitoral stimulators are the ultimate incognito vibrator, you could hang some of these on your key ring (in the interest of hygiene DON’T) these are designed exclusively for stimulating the clitoris & are easily carried around in a purse or hand bag or hidden in your bed side table.
Once you have your chosen toy set aside an hour lay back, draw the curtains & use it to explore your body, feel your way and pause to enjoy the stimulation of erogenous zones & sensitive areas, don’t rush the process, the better you know your body the greater satisfaction you will glean from it.
Learning to use a sex toy is like learning to drive (without the danger of crashing). You start off hesitantly then after a while you begin to enjoy the sense of freedom & power your basic machine offers and before you know it the learner plates are gone & you are in the showroom looking for an all singing all dancing thrill inducing, throbbing, exhilarating ride of your life.
Enjoy!
