Using Anal Sex Toys - Breaking the taboo of Anal Sex.

We could talk statistics and quote the survey, released last year, showing that 38.2 percent of men between 20 and 39 and 32.6 percent of women ages 18 to 44 engage in heterosexual anal sex.

We are talking of a once taboo subject which is coming out of the closet and planting itself firmly in the sexual repertoire of many a suburban bedroom.

Lets face it men have always been interested in encouraging us ladies to expose the derriere & many lads mags have regularly published the ‘how to’, ‘why’ & ‘where’ of anal sex and the art of gentle persuasion.

Today’s articles extol the anti-cancer benefits of massaging the male prostate & feature the ever growing popularity of the male line of anal toys such as the Nexus range, Male pleasure wand & Rude Boy.

As a buyer I have seen a massive increase in product which focuses not only on the male prostate but on the act of anal sex where the female is now the perpetrator

“More and more, people are devoting themselves to learning about anal pleasure,” says Carolyn Riccardi, education coordinator for Babeland’s New York retail stores. “Male-to-female anal sex has been happening since the dawn of time,” she says. “What’s different now is that women are actively learning how to enjoy it and have fun with it.”

“ I first tried it with my husband as a mutual decision when we were going through a phase of putting a lot of effort into jazzing up our sex life. We now make it a regular part of our sexual antics & my husband enjoys the fact that it encourages me to take the upper hand” Michelle Boudoir Sex Toy Tester.

As a company we have undoubtingly begun to view anal sex toys for heterosexual couples a main toy line & are only led by the demand we experience & the wonderful product lines available. The feedback on these products are overwhelmingly positive & as our Toy Test co-ordinator states:

“I always send out the new anal toys to willing participants of which there are many registered to experiment with anal play, these are mainly cohabitating or married couples who turn to anal sex for variety ”

Is it going to hurt? I hear you cry, this is the first question to pop in peoples mind. There seems to be three golden rules when it comes to anal sex:

1. Relax
2. Be Gentle
3. Use Lots of Lubricant
Anal sex is a very intimate act where both parties have to be fully onboard to achieve success & ultimately enjoyment. Trust & communication is important, don’t take it too seriously and be prepared to laugh along the way.

Here are our top tips for anal play:

1.Start out by using a lubricant, a well lubricated finger or small butt plug during foreplay or sex helps to become used to feeling something in back passage.

2.Always use a water based lube even during finger play.

3.Don’t focus on the act itself, when you are anxious and expecting something to hurt you automatically tense your muscles and low & behold you make it hurt.

4.Insert penis/dildo/prostate massager just inside the anus and relax around it before inserting further it really does help.

5.As a woman lie on your side for anal penetration ‘spoons style’ and place a discreet or small vibrator in-between your legs and against the clitoris for an orgasm with your man.

6.Use a prostate massager on your man during oral sex it will blow his mind.

7.If you are worried about messy anal sex use an anal douche 30 minutes before hand for guaranteed good clean fun.

As Mark our consult puts it “I think anyone who doesn’t enjoy it or thinks they wouldn’t is hindered by their own hang-ups. It feels good. Breaking taboos is sexy. Variety is sexy. Being vulnerable is sexy.”