Valentine Day Tips

Valentines Day is just around the corner and there is no hiding from the plethora of cutie cards, cuddly bears and hearts heaped on the high street. Here at The Boudoir we have exchanged notes (and past experiences) to give our suggestions for the perfect Valentine.

Firstly the single ladies would like to point out that Valentine need not exclude them and hovering over the postman for a surprise offering is not their only recourse for enjoying the day! Instead indulge in the two best things about being single -

Go out on the town with friends - Avoid at all costs establishments with low lights, single roses on the table and a dodgy guy playing Spanish guitar in the corner. Instead head for a club or bar where like minded singletons may gather and drink copious amounts of alcohol without being glared at from across the room!

Spending time alone - Never under estimate the peace and quiet of spending time alone and of course indulging yourself in the meantime. We recommend a long bath, favourite DVD (Check out our female friendly versions) and your favourite toy (The Extreme Rabbit is favourite at the moment)

For the couples amongst you we suggest building up to the big day. Send saucy text messages to your partner describing what you would like to do to them in detail (double check the recipient before you send!)Alternatively buy some Erotic Fiction and text/e-mail some passages to your partner as delicious foreplay.

A popular suggestion from our couples is a Hotel Break. Book a meal for the evening, wear some very saucy undies, take a weekend away kit or Couples gift pack and retire to the room to indulge in each other all night (with mini bar breaks of course)An evening meal in a swanky restaurant is always good and allows for full attention in the bedroom whilst somebody else is doing the washing up. Choose foods high in Zinc (Chicken, Cheese, Brown rice and red meat) a sexy mineral which heightens the senses, increases fertility and regulates the sperm function. Don't worry if you can only run to a bar snack - peanuts contain histidine an amino acid that can trigger and intensify orgasm!

For the home-loving couple we have just one scenario for the evening. Run a warm bath which is good for circulation and will stimulate blood around the pelvic area, make it last around 20 minutes (our passion bath salts contain foreplay cards to kill the time!). Pour chilled champagne for you both which will increase testosterone levels in the ladies responsible for sex drive. Melt some dark chocolate and serve as a dip with fresh strawberries. In addition to boosting fertility, strawberries are rich in the all important vitamin C. Chocolate contains phenylethylamine, a natural chemical present in the brain thought to cause the feelings experienced when one is in love. There are also stimulants in chocolate, Theobromine and caffeine that will keep you going for short periods! After this cocktail of aphrodisiacs present the sex toy gift of your choice and watch your Valentines Day go with a bang.

Enjoy!