Boudoir Guide To Sex Toys For Couples

Lets face it sex at the start of a relationship involves maximum effort in the bedroom, car, field, changing rooms in M&S. The question is what happens after the initial surge: after year 4, kids, Saturday football, shopping trolleys and a demanding boss? The truth is those couples that stay happy in the sex stakes have to make an effort and that means giving some priority to the sexual side of their relationship. We all know failed relationships are on the up - World divorce statistics for the UK stand at 53% (Italy and Uzbekistan are 12%). Where public stoning or hell fire and damnation don’t act as a deterrent how do we keep positive communication alive in our relationships? A good physical relationship certainly paves the way (Look at celebrity married couple Sting & Trudie Styler, who openly discuss their active sex life & Tantric marathons).
Sharing sexual desires is paramount: take time over foreplay, consider your partners desires and explore each others fantasies, our tester couples sex toy’s recommendations will help choose which type of toy suits you best.

Those that play together stay together and with that in mind here’s what our sex toy testing couples had to say about their favourite toys and the best ways for couples to play with them – Enjoy!

The Cock Ring – Our couples favourite! The perfect toy to ensure a satisfying orgasm for her whilst maintaining an erection for him. Some preferred our non-vibrating (Purple Cock Ring with a steel ball) yet all agreed that the vibrating versions certainly guaranteed a climax.
Our sex toy for couples choice - The Dinky Banger - A cock ring with great clitoral stimulation.

Mini Vibrator – Lots of our couples use a mini vibrator regularly whilst lovemaking. Many women can’t climax through penetration alone and the mini vibe enables a flexible approach to clitoral stimulation during sex as it doesn’t get in the way or as one guy stated ‘make you feel inferior’. The favoured position is ‘doggy style’ which allows full access whilst the mini vibrator is used from the front.
Our couples toy of choice - Discretion Vibe – Discreet & perfectly formed vibrator.

Buzzing Finger/Stimulator – Great for use during sex as with the mini vibe, yet lots of our couples liked to use them during foreplay for mutual stimulation. The non phallic nature of the vibrators allow for stimulation all over the body and our male testers liked the feeling of them over the sensitive areas of the penis. The tongue joy ‘takes out the hard work’ as one person put it and the ladies were not complaining.
Our couples sex toy choice - Tongue joy – Enhancing oral sex among couples everywhere.

Orgasm Boosters – The Flower & Rocket balm appears to be staple of the bedside drawer with our couples saying that the sensations were great and the taste good at the same time. The ladies thought that using an enhancer during foreplay heightened sensitivity during sex and made climax easier or more enjoyable. Our couples find that using an oil or balm on their partners made them linger on the erogenous zones and provided a longer sensual foreplay.
Our couples enhancer of choice – Flower Balm – Good orgasm booster without being overpowering.

Bullets – Bullets by their very design provide great clitoral stimulation and our couples used them for foreplay for this purpose. The favoured type came as a kit and had various attachments for male use also i.e.: anal. Some testers had used the remote bullet and one pair admitted to an addiction to public outings with the bullet firmly ensconced in knickers!
Our sex toy for couples choice –Miyakodori – Good vibrations & the best use of a remote control yet.

The Dildo/strap on – Strap on fun is certainly a firm favourite in the bedroom! Our couples of all sexual orientations enjoy the experience and suggest looking carefully at preferences on size, shape and materials used.
Our couples choice of sex toy – Alias female strap on – Nice size dildo & ideal for the anal beginner.

Love beads – Lots of couples enjoy anal stimulation during sex. The beads prove a firm favourite with a preference for the softer bendy type. Lots of recommendation for the Mantric beads as the vibrations enhance pleasure during lovemaking for him or her.
Our Sex toys for couples choice – Dinky beads – Good sized bum beads with a nice vibration level.