Topic of the Month Archive
8th March 2010 - A Guide to Soft Bondage
Clamps, paddles, cuffs and collars we give a quick whip around the world of soft bondage
I read recently an article that described soft bondage as something ‘normal people’ do, I think the context of the writing was such that the author indulged in what they personally considered ‘extreme bondage practises’. Although I am not fond of labelling any sexual practise in terms of normal/abnormal or soft/...
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1st March 2010 - Mantric mPod Review
Kat reviews the Mantric mPod vibrating bullet, her first Mantric sex toy which didn't fail to impress
Mantric mPod is the first Mantric sex toy I have ever tried and on first impression it looks elegant with a modern twist. Clearly aimed at the gadget savvy ‘iPod generation’, the clean lines, unfussy packaging, minimalist style...
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25th February 2010 - Which dildo is right for me?
Choosing a dildo for the first time can be a little confusing and knowing which dildos will ‘fit’ or satisfy you often comes with time and practice. Here is our rough guide to choosing a dildo.
Choosing a dildo does seem to present a quandary to many and judging by the amount of questions we are asked about this classic sex toy it is a shared problem. Dildos don’t have the complex options of vibration and multi-function of vibrators or rabbit vibrators so why the conu...
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18th February 2010 - How to use a Rabbit Vibrator With Your Partner
The Rabbit vibrator has long been a first choice for women when looking for a sex toy but we are often asked how it can be taken from the bedside drawer a
We are asked many times how you can use your rabbit vibrator with your partner. Some women may have only tried the rabbit vibe and consider it so good as a masturbation aid that a logical step would be to bring some of that pleasure to share between you. Another scenario is to introduce an inclusive element to sex toy play, if your partner knows th...
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9th February 2010 - Make your Valentines Go With a Swing
Seduction, Sex, Sensual treats, sex toys, Sushi or Slobbing out on the sofa, whatever Valentines means to you we have some tips to make the evening go wit
Whether you are planning a hot and horny session of unadulterated sexual exploration or preparing a sensual love nest for you both to re-discover your most pleasurable personal parts we have devised a list of favoured tips to incorporate into your Valentines celebration - Enjoy! Plan your Seduction- Valentines calls for a little extra effort and it only takes a small amount of planning f...
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9th December 2009 - Female Orgasm Facts
It is a fact that more women than men report difficulties in achieving orgasm. It is stated that about 40% of men will experience some problems with climax during their sexual lifetime, however men tend to orgasm easier through both masturbation and sex which means that us girls need to be aware of the female orgasm facts.So many facts and figures are tossed about in the flotsam of femal...
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8th December 2009 - Monkey Spanker Review
The, cheekily named, Monkey Spanker is a male masturbator but, unlike sex toys with a tube design, this is more like a paddle i...
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19th November 2009 - The sexual stages
Wouldn’t it be dull if all you had to do was just press a button and you were catapulted to climax in 30 seconds. Even when using sex toys it isn’t about buying pleasure at a push of a button but enjoying all parts of the journey. Thankfully we all go through a series of sexual stages to reach the final destination of sexual satisfaction and examin...
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18th November 2009 - A Review of the Basix 8 Dildo
My partner and I use realistic dildos regularly during foreplay and prolonged sex sessions. He likes the look of a realistic cock and uses dildos on me for my pleasure and to build up his arousal. I think he enjoys the thought of me with another man in the comfort of our...
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11th November 2009 - How to use a Bullet Vibrator
Bullet Vibrators are predominately used as a clitoral vibrator & are the best sex toys for masturbation and during sex if in the right position. Bullet vibrators can be wireless or attached to a console for variation in vibration...
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31st October 2009 - The Screaming O Bullet Vibrator
The screaming O Bullet comes in a small plastic sealed bag much like a disposable razor which makes it look throw away when it is in fact a re-usable bullet vibrator. When it comes to sex toys the screaming O Bullet is obviously a ...
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22nd October 2009 - Using Clitoral Vibrators During Sex
Couples sex toys are easily found in any sex shop or online store, vibrator kits and cock rings that shout out partner pleasure but what are the best choices when it comes to clitoral stimulation during sex. It has long been a known statistic that most women need clitoral stimulation during love making to orgasm and many couples are looking for ...
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18th October 2009 - Funfactory Layaspot
The LAYAspot is presented in an understated, compact, clear-fronted box, tastefully stamped with the Fun Factory sex toys logo. Coming from the group of sex toys for women with a non-phallic shape, this ...
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13th October 2009 - The Vagina Monologue
We could be accused of focussing all of our attention on the clitoris so today we want to talk about the vagina and vaginal penetration. When you think of the vagina it is usual to envisage a tunnel or circular opening ready to be penetrated by a penis or sex toys but in fact the vagina is much like a muscular envelope. The sides of the vagina ...
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12th October 2009 - The Beginners Guide To Masturbation
Some women discover their orgasmic capabilities during adolescence, others do not masturbate until adulthood. For some women achieving orgasm has been an easy exercise whereas not all women can climax with ease. Its easy to say ‘do what comes naturally’ but what if you feel that nothing comes that naturally and attempts at masturbation have lead to frustration and anti-climax. What if you have ...
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1st October 2009 - Secret Sex Toys
Teensy sex toys that can be nestled inside you or worn under your clothing can give delicious hands free pleasure at any time of the day. Sex toys that vibrate so silently that you can use them in public and nobody need discover your hidden treasures. From metal love balls that slip into your vagina to remote control sex toys which can leave...
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19th September 2009 - Hitting The Right Spot
Sex Toys work best on the very sensitive areas of the body; these extra receptive areas are called the erogenous zones. These sensual areas are jam packed with nerve endings, which begin intense sexual arousal when stimulated.The best rule to learn about erogenous zones is that there are no rules. If your last partner was sent to heaven ever...
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17th September 2009 - Sex Toys and The G Spot
The g spot has become something of a popular zone for women to explore and sex toys of all genres have been adapted to reach this orgasmic spot. If you purchase a dildo you can benefit from its penetrative pleasures immediately and finding the clitoris to benefit from a vibrators buzz is quickly master...
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8th September 2009 - Rock Chick Review By Kat
This curious looking purple number arrives in a semi-see through box (which just fits in an outstretched palm) proclaiming, “Stop Rabbiting…Start Rockin’.”, a reference to the rabbit vibrators that took the world by storm not so long ago. The revolutionary ‘U-shape’ design, as opposed to the standard phallic shape of most ...
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2nd September 2009 - Reasons To Buy A Cock Ring
When it comes to sex toys, cock rings might not make a massive statement but they possess massive potential to please both partners in a way that no other couples sex toy can. Affordable and practical the cock ring does not interfere with your sex session but enhance the pleasure giving properties of you both, a sex aid which helps to improve on yo...
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31st August 2009 - Vibrators
Vibrators can give pleasure to the clitoris, vulva, vagina, g spot and prostate. A vibrator offers the easiest way of reaching climax amongst sex toys, with consistent and strong stimulation that can fast track you to orgasm in minutes.Vibrators come in many shapes and sizes with variable controls ...
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24th August 2009 - Pleasuring the Prostate
For many men pleasuring the prostate is a highly enjoyable part of their sexual routine. Men can use sex toys to massage the prostate during masturbation and it makes a fantastic couples sex toy to pleasure both the P & G spot. If you haven’t discovered the enjoyment derived from the prostate or are a ...
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24th August 2009 - Screaming Vibrations
The vibrating cock ring has long been a bedroom essential for lovers and screaming O have contributed a whole range of couples sex toys for omazing orgasm enhancement. The screaming O is a disposable cock ring with vibrating pleasure bumps ...
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23rd August 2009 - Mantric Siena Series
Womens sex toys are flooding the adult market, some are good and some are bad. After four years, many thousands of pounds, many airmiles and endless testing Mantric has released the Siena series, sex toys to get excited about. ...
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17th August 2009 - Choosing An Anal Sex Toy
Choosing the best anal sex toys will depend on your preferences during sex and masturbation. A Finger toy will give a delicate anal sensation, whilst a butt plug will give a full feeling during intercourse that stretches the vagina for increased mutual pleasure. Many couples enjoy strap on sex for male anal penetration and pro...
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16th August 2009 - Beginners Guide to Anal Sex
Anal play can be a pleasurable part of masturbation or intercourse. Anal Sex and anal sex toys have become an integral part of many couples sexual repertoire and can be a highly erotic sexual act. Stimulation with fingers, dildos and vibrating prostate toys can be an exciting and ...
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11th August 2009 - Vibrator Techniques
Lazy EightThe lazy eight vibrator technique encourages you to take your time with self-pleasure. Less a quickie and more foreplay with your sex toy which will lead to an improved climax (the best things in life are always worth waiting for). Set your vibrator to a low buzz and imagine a figure of eight shape from your inner thighs across your belly over the nipples and back down. If it...
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9th August 2009 - Choosing a Vibrator
Vibrators are a popular sex toy for both women and couples due to their diversity as a pleasure provider. Vibrators can be used internally for vaginal stimulation and topically for clitoral or full body stimulation. Arouse or soothe a vibrator can be a perfect couples sex toy and many are bought with b...
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30th July 2009 - Tips for using your Dildo
The ButterflyThe best position to start using a dildo is the butterfly. Either lie on your back or support your upper body slightly so that you can see your vagina, put your feet together and let your legs flop to the side, like the two wings of a butterfly. From this position you can easily control the dildo and penetrate y...
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14th July 2009 - Pumping Purple Thruster - A review by Kat
Packaged in a partly transparent pinky cardboard sleeve, this thruster rabbit measures just under 9 inches from the shaft base to the tip and boasts no less than 20 individual settings (10 for clitoral stimulation and 10 for vaginal stimulation) that can be combined to suit your own particular mood and need...
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12th July 2009 - Cock Rings
What are couples looking for when they shop for sex toys? Invariably something to pleasure themselves and their lover, something to enhance their sexual experience and ensure climax for both partners. This can come from a menagerie of sex toys and bedroom accessories but none does it quite as well as the humble ...
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7th July 2009 - Sexy at 50
Whether you are a beginner to sex toys or have been using erotic accessories for many years your 50’s can be the start of a satisfying journey of self-discovery and sexual experience to promote that youthful glow that can’t be bottled and sold to you over the beauty counter.It is natural that our sexual preferences change at different points...
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2nd July 2009 - How To Use A Rabbit Vibrator
Rabbit vibrators have become the iconic sex toy for women, almost a symbol for sex toys themselves. A point of reference and the ultimate pleasure object for ladies, expected to be lurking in the bottom of most bedroom drawers. Rabbit vibrators have woven their way into the fa...
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21st June 2009 - Sex Toys and Celebrities
I suspect that my need to reveal my total addiction to rabbit vibrators, handy clit stims and the occasional dildo du jour would probably result in a few problems but in their quest for gra...
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18th June 2009 - Dildos
Dildos are non-vibrating sex toys made in a huge array of shapes, sizes and colours. Their primary use in the bedroom is for vaginal and anal penetration both for solo pleasure and during couple’s sex play. A dildo exists to cater for every taste and preference, some resemble a penis with natural detail, others look like torpedo’s and others have weird and wonderful designs such as animals or v...
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10th June 2009 - Slippery When Wet A guide to lubrication
Contraceptives, new motherhood, menopause, time of the month and medication can all effect the amount of natural lubrication you produce when aroused. In addition women differ greatly in the amount of ‘wetness’ that occurs during arousal and if your vagina remains relatively dry a sex lubricant can greatly improve sex or a sel...
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2nd June 2009 - Indulge in Sexual Fantasy
Sex toys are a tangible aid to sex and masturbation but your own imagination can be a useful sexual prop, fuelling your desire and libido through fantasy and erotic daydreams. It is purported that almost 50% of women fantasise during masturbation and weaving your sexual fantasies into your sex life can fuel a healthy sexual outlook and take you on ...
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20th May 2009 - We-Vibe
The primary thing that caught our attention in the office was that the We-Vibe is a Clitoral and G Spot vibrator worn whilst making love. What? We have been conceiving ingenious positions and sourcing micro vibes and clitoral stimulators to climax during copulation since we hung the sign over the door. What we wanted to know was once you looked beyond the marketing hype...
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14th May 2009 - Blending Orgasms
In terms of sexology a ‘Blended Orgasm’ is one that combines the clitoral orgasm (tented) and a G Spot Orgasm (A Frame) or uterine orgasm. By stimulating the clitoris and massaging your G Spot at the same time the intensity of your orgasm will be much greater and perhaps last longer than focussing on one erogenous zone. “I don’t have enough hands” I hear you cry and it does seem like trying to ...
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11th May 2009 - The Dildo: A Sex Toy with Heritage
Dildo: a phallic shaped sex toy, manufactured in all shapes and sizes for vaginal penetration. The dildo could be perceived in a modern day context just as any other erotic toy but this humble phallus has a history woven into the society of many ages with reference and examples from Cassical, Egyptian, Greek and even Paleolithic times. The origins of the word Dildo is open to some debate...
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7th May 2009 - Sexual Lubricants
Sexual lubricants are associated with vaginal dryness and in the past have been a poor substitute for a woman’s natural lubrication. Lubricants are placed at the peripherals of a sex toy shop, an accessory to the erotic goods on offer but in reality modern day lubricants are a low...
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28th April 2009 - Putting the sssh into sex toys
Kids, neighbours, housemates, travel, there are plenty of reasons why discreet sex toys are a popular choice. I can remember my mum passing off a disturbance in the night as her ‘cutting meat’ for my dad’s sandwiches with her 1970’s electric carving knife. At the time I wondered why she was preparing his lunch in the middle of the night and she only now admits they had treated themselves to a v...
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19th April 2009 - Clitoral Massage Techniques
You can try the following clitoral massage techniques with your fingers & a little sex lubricant, a vibrator or dildo.Clitoral RubForm a long plank by placing your two fore fingers side...
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17th April 2009 - Preparing For Pleasure
Fitting in a sex life amongst today’s hectic schedules & stressful demands can be difficult. Enjoying that sex & switching off from the daily grind can be even more difficult which is why preparing yourself for pleasure plays an important part in achieving a satisfying sex life. This also extends to your solitary pleasure time, whereby a tense body & mind isn’t responsive to self stimulation ei...
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1st April 2009 - Sex Toys That Pleasure The Planet
Ok environmental issues don’t necessarily have a sexy image & the stereotypical eco warrior of old conjures images of crusty dreadlocks & holey jumpers but today we all try to incorporate a greener routine into our daily life. I recycle, re-use, buy locally, choose less packaging, use seasonal produce but what choices do I have if I have when it comes to my sex toys? What simple steps can I tak...
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28th March 2009 - Getting To Know You
Yes the female genitals are far more complicated than the males & its not on show so less presented for constant close up scrutiny. Despite the recent increase in female genitalia modification (makes me want to squeeze my knees), women tend to obsess less about the details of their sexual organs than men but are more dependant on multiple stimulation & ‘all body’ sensation. This is even more re...
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16th March 2009 - Are you Airing the orchid?
Flickin' the bean, Lovin' your oven, Pushing the button, Rubbin' the nubbin, whatever name you wish to give it female masturbation is usually the first natural sexual activity experienced by women. Lets face it biologically we were designed to experience sexual pleasure with or without a partner & in modern times we understand that a) We won’t go blindb) Its not a sinc) Its n...
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6th March 2009 - Boost your Libido
As with everything a little daily effort goes a long way & there are lots of things we can do to keep our sexual desire alive.Think sexy thoughtsThe mind has a big part to play in our sex drive & sexual motivation. Think about sex every day & introduce props into your routine to allow sexual thoughts to arise.Allow sex to permeate your mind by wearing seductive underwear in ...
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17th February 2009 - Designer Sex Toys
Manufacturers have slowly emerged who produce a superior sex toy & design led adult product. Many of us can now identify the main designer toy leaders such as Lelo, Fun Factory & JimmyJane. Boots the chemist has recently placed Phillips luxury intimate massager on its shelves & many high end boutiques & stores are happy to stock the cream of the adult industries crop. The growing female & ...
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12th February 2009 - The Missionary Position
Laying flat on your back won’t give your man the message he needs or give you the climax you desire. Remember that an orgasm will be more achievable if the clitoral area is massaged in motion. Tilting your pelvis slightly & thrusting your hips with his will allow maximum stimulation to your clitoral area. Either wrap your legs firmly around him with your ankles crossed whilst grinding in unison...
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10th February 2009 - Holiday Sex
Lets face it we have little distraction on holiday, walk around half naked all day, bask in the sunshine & have a sexy golden glow to raise the libido & ignite the passions.I have some tips & tricks to help fuel the holiday romance & provide a sexy time in the sun with sex toys or your partner.Ready made sex SwingIf you have access to a hammock treat it just as you would a s...
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29th January 2009 - The Female Orgasm
The female orgasms (or orgasms)The wonder of the female orgasm can come to us through many methods & in fact experts claim that women can experience at least six different types of climax.If you haven’t tried to orgasm in more ways than one than perhaps its time to spread your sexual wings & if you don’t succeed with one at least its fun trying out.Clitoral OrgasmsIt’...
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27th January 2009 - The Male Orgasm
Did you know that men are capable of having many different types of orgasm?Each method of making your man moan with pleasure will induce a different intensity of orgasm & our orgasmic ability is greater than you might think.Don’t get stuck in a sexual routine & take advantage of the plethora of pleasurable sexual techniques & all erogenous zones to bring the evenings climax to the cresc...
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6th January 2009 - The Joys of Anal Sex?
Anal Sex approached in the right way can actually be a lot of rumpy pumpy fun for both partners, here’s our many reasons why indulging in anal sex can actually make a lot of sexual sense.Lets start with the obvious anal sex is the ultimate safe sex. If you rely on counting days & avoiding the most fertile of your periods anal sex is a great way to indulge in complete abandonment with y...
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5th January 2009 - The Guide to Better Orgasms
Do you manage to reach the great climax crescendo & it turns into a squeak? Are you running towards the finishing line of orgasmic pleasure & it all grinds to a holt at the ribbon? We have some suggestions for improving your orgasm & ensuring that your orgasms don’t become an anti-climax in the bedroom.There are many obvious benefits to exercise but did you know that exercise not onl...
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3rd January 2009 - Create your Own Bondage Boudoir
Sales of bondage products have progressively moved towards the mainstream & more suburban couples are discovering the sexual benefits of restraining & punishment role-play. The question is how to start choosing & creating your very own sex dungeon. We don’t all have the space or money to create a den of iniquity all our own so we ha...
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2nd January 2009 - Male guide to the clitoris
For years the clitoris has been the source of both fear & trepidation for many male mortals. The sole mention of clitoral stimulation can send men into meltdown, overwhelming them in angst & confusion it can take years for a man to gain any understanding of the “clit” & still very few ever attain the enlightenment we want them to have & this is why god invented clitoral vibrators Now at The Bou...
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1st January 2009 - Using a dildo as a couple
The humble dildo has been around almost since the days of Adam & Eve. Historically, even the Ancient Greeks & Romans made phallic shaped objects of lust made from aged leather or carved from wood which had olive oil applied to them to act as a lubricant.Since this early representation the dildo has appeared in more movies than yo...
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1st January 2009 - Whip up a sexual frenzy in the bedroom
Ever fancied the idea of some bondage play in the bedroom but not really sure where to start? We have enlisted the help of Emma G our resident bondage expert to give her advice on beginning with soft bondage play, sexual power play & becoming a dominatrix.Firstly lets get one thing straight any bondage play needs to be between two mutually consenting adults who are both equally willi...
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27th December 2008 - Best Selling Sex Toys For Women
Our best sellers for 2008 are......Rabbit VibratorsLets face it us girls never tire of the rabbit vibrator. Just as we never tire of the fabulous four from sex & the city with their gorgeous shoes, perfect couture & girly chats of orgasm & sexual misadventures, so too we have a love affair with the woman’s s...
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21st December 2008 - Women want a vibrator for Christmas
I am a listener to Radio 1 on Sunday mornings and on the last weekend before Christmas Radio 1 DJ Nihal invited listeners to say what they wanted for Christmas. The usual requests from world peace to everything from the pages of the Argos Catalogue flooded in but the biggest non broadcastable request appears to be: a VIBRATOR....
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14th December 2008 - Sex Toys For Women
The female of the species is on a roll, the last three decades have seen women in the western world shake off their second rate shackles & embrace the right to equality.Politics, business, religion, have all seen women’s meteoric rise to recognition & at times dominance yet despite the hailing of the rabbit vibrator in ...
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31st October 2008 - The Rise Of The Sexpert
Why does every sex toy store you come across feel compelled to extol the generous services of their resident sexpert. The honoured title has now become a recognised credential in itself; an amalgamation of celebrity & sexual advisor that makes Sarah Palin look like Felicity Kendall. Whether all knowing celebrity ‘sex expert’ willing to wax lyrical on the sexual preferences of today’s wom...
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14th August 2008 - Introduction to sextoys for the uninitiated
This article was inspired by a conversation between a customer & a member of our staff on the subject of introducing people to sex toys. In this case the woman & her friend were buying vibrators for their teenage daughters as a way of introducing them to sexual self discovery. Scary? Not as scary as the thought of your teenage daughter discovering her sexuality in the back of some oik’s Fiat Pu...
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31st March 2008 - Using Anal Sex Toys - Breaking the taboo of Anal Sex.
We could talk statistics and quote the survey, released last year, showing that 38.2 percent of men between 20 and 39 and 32.6 percent of women ages 18 to 44 engage in heterosexual anal sex. We are talking of a once taboo subject which is coming out of the closet and planting itself firmly in the sexual repertoire of many a suburban bedroom.Lets face it men have always been intere...
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10th January 2008 - Have more sex - Our New Year Resolution for 2008
Every year we make the same old resolutions, intended to cleanse our minds and bodies and ensure a new and improved you. That very different slimmer, calmer, punctual, alcohol free, active, intellectual pillar of society.Well we decided in the office that we would instead focus on increasing the enjoyable health beneficial habits instead of denying ourselves (pass the left over ...
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22nd November 2007 - How to use a Rabbit Wave Vibrator
HOW TO MAKE BEST USE OF YOUR RABBIT WAVE VIBRATOR. First of all the Rabbit Wave has more generous proportions than the average rabbit with a circumference of almost 5 1/2 inches so you may want to use a lubricant to start with. The motion on the shaft provides t...
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2nd October 2007 - Sex Toys and Relationships
Let's face it; most women have enjoyed a relationship with a Rampant Rabbit, a Dildo or a Vibrator at some point in their sex lives. For some of us it's just an other experience to tick off the "Things to do before I'm 30" list. For others it's a satisfying self indulging no holds barred adventure with an array of phallus none of which suffer with the Green Eyed Monster jealousy of mere mortals...
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1st March 2007 - The G-Spot
What is it?The G-spot (Prostate in the male of the species) otherwise known as the grafenberg spot named after Ernst Grafenberg who first described in in 1944 is a highly sensitive area inside the vagina against the front vaginal wall which can give immense pleasure when stimulated. The prostate for the guys is a small gland located within the perineum – the area between the testicles ...
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9th January 2007 - Valentine Day Tips
Valentines Day is just around the corner and there is no hiding from the plethora of cutie cards, cuddly bears and hearts heaped on the high street. Here at The Boudoir we have exchanged notes (and past experiences) to give our suggestions for the perfect Valentine.Firstly the single ladies would like to point out that Valentine need not exclude them and hovering over th...
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1st January 2007 - Boudoir Guide To Sex Toys For Couples
Lets face it sex at the start of a relationship involves maximum effort in the bedroom, car, field, changing rooms in M&S. The question is what happens after the initial surge: after year 4, kids, Saturday football, shopping trolleys and a demanding boss? The truth is those couples that stay happy in the sex stakes have to make an effort and that means giving some priority to the sexual side of...
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31st March 2005 - Sex Toys Care Guide
Look after your toys & they will look after you!CleaningAlways wash your toy after use.Silicone - Use Toy cleaner or soap & warm water. Non-battery operated toys can be boiled or steam sterilised for 2/3 minutes.Latex or jelly - Toy cleaner or soap & warm water. Remember to rinse off really well don't just introduce your sex toy to the rinse.Plastic/Acryli...
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